For the first time in my life I feel like I am on my own. Since transferring to the this university I felt like I am “adulating”. Even though at my previous institution I was much farther from home and was living in a dorm, I still felt like I was depending on my parents. However, at this new school I am living in a dorm that have a kitchen (the other one didn’t have one). I am cooking my own food and buying groceries! It’s so weird how far time have passed. I remember hating my life, wishing that something will chance but what I learn is that you make your own decisions. You have the right to change your life around if you don’t like how something is playing out. No one can live your life, they may have opinions about how you living your life but that’s all it is, only you can change your life.